Connection and Support
For those who are in – or beginning to think about – their autumn season, the days can sometimes feel long or isolating. As an end-of-life doula (also known as a death doula), I'm here to walk alongside you or your loved ones during this time, offering companionship, meaningful conversation, and practical guidance.
Many families ask me when to hire an end-of-life doula or what's the difference between a doula and hospice. The truth is, I work alongside your existing care team, enhancing medical care with personalized support that hospitals and hospice programs simply can't provide.
Your Story, Your Way
Your life is so much more than your illness. You have stories to share, connections to cherish, and wishes to honor. As we get to know each other, I’ll listen deeply and ask questions to better understand your end-of-life goals and priorities. Together, we’ll shape this final chapter in a way that reflects your values, memories, and desires — ensuring your story is told just as you want it to be.
What I Offer
Companionship and Conversation: Providing a comforting presence and a listening ear during days that can sometimes feel long or isolating.
Life Review and Legacy Work: Reflecting on your life’s journey and preserving your legacy through letters and a variety of meaningful projects.
Advocacy and Support: Ensuring your needs and wishes are understood and respected by your care team and loved ones.
Practical Assistance: Guidance with advance care planning, paperwork, and coordinating your final wishes.
Vigil Sitting: Being present with you during the final moments to offer calm, comfort, and support.
Respite for Caregivers: Allowing your loved ones to take breaks from caregiving, knowing you are supported and cared for.
A Team Approach
I work closely with your family, friends, and care team to understand your daily routine and preferences. My goal is to ensure you spend this chapter exactly as you wish, with peace, dignity, and connection. I collaborate with hospice and palliative care teams, physicians, social workers, and your chosen support systems to provide seamless, coordinated care.
When to Reach Out
People often tell me they wish they'd known about end-of-life doulas sooner, or worry they've waited too long to call. The truth is, there's no wrong time to reach out for support:
When you first receive difficult news about a diagnosis
As you're beginning to think about hospice or palliative care
During overwhelming transitions between hospitals and home
When your family can't agree on the best path forward
After you've lost someone and need help processing grief
Even when you're healthy but want to plan ahead thoughtfully
Whether you're planning ahead, dealing with an immediate crisis, or processing grief after a loss, I'm here to help you navigate this journey with dignity and peace.
Let’s Connect
If you or someone you love could benefit from end-of-life doula support, please contact me for a complimentary initial consultation. I am based in Manhattan and ready to support you and your family during this important time.
How I Support You and Your Family
End-of-Life Planning
I understand how overwhelming advance directives and care planning can feel. I'll help you break down these important decisions into manageable conversations, ensuring your voice is heard every step of the way. My comprehensive planning services include advance care directives, vigil preparation, respite care, and holistic emotional support for individuals nearing end-of-life and their families.
Individualized Support
Every family's journey is unique. I provide practical, personalized guidance through every step – from navigating paperwork and advance care directives to understanding and preparing for the dying process. Whether I'm supporting a family on the Upper East Side through their first hospice meeting or helping someone in the Village create a legacy project, I meet you wherever you are in this process.
Family Navigation
Families often struggle with conflicting opinions about care decisions. Having facilitated many difficult conversations, I help family members communicate openly and find common ground, even when emotions run high. I provide specialized support for children experiencing grief, help spouses navigate caregiving stress, and offer respite care for exhausted family caregivers.
Bereavement Support
Death doesn't end relationships - it changes them. I continue supporting families after their loved one dies, helping navigate grief's unpredictable waves and finding ways to maintain meaningful connections with those we've lost. This ongoing support includes memorial planning, anniversary and holiday guidance, and helping family members process their continuing bond with loved ones.
Creating Lasting Legacy
Some of my most meaningful work happens when families create something lasting together. Whether it's recording stories for grandchildren or writing letters for future milestones, these projects often bring unexpected healing and connection during difficult times. Through legacy exploration, we build lasting memories that honor your unique story and help you connect deeply with loved ones.